
Have you ever wondered what goes behind pretty cut flower gardens or backyards full of different colored and gorgeous dahlias? My dear plant friend Jennifer Gulizia of The Flowering Farmhouse has both, but she’s quick to say the pretty part is only the reward! She is a flower farmer and dahlia hybridizer, and she’s lost her growing space, rebuilt it from scratch, and now stewards a 20-acre farm. In this episode, she talks about the mindset shifts that got her through and her simple bouquet recipe for planning your own cut flower garden. Come hear her story!
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Jennifer’s love of flowers started at her aunt and uncle’s house, which was always filled with dinner plate dahlias and hydrangeas. Her first garden was a tiny backyard planted with clearance flowers from Lowe’s.
Years later, as a wedding photographer, she shot a bride carrying homegrown Cafe au Lait dahlias. Then a florist asked her one question… “Did you know people buy these flowers?”
That was how she got the idea.
Jennifer planted almost 300 dahlias in her front yard and sold them to local florists.
She shifted to wedding colors as per their suggestion, and signed up for Floret’s online course to learn how to run a real cut flower business.
When COVID shut down her photography studio, she filled it with grow lights, leased a quarter acre from her neighbor, and launched a flower CSA in 2020. It sold out!
Unfortunately, at the end of 2023, her 95-year-old neighbor passed away unexpectedly, and Jennifer lost the space.
She had just closed her photography business. She turned 40 that same week and landed in the hospital a month later.
“I wasn’t resilient at first,” she shared. So she focused on what she could control: soil health, a coach, and a lot of audiobooks in the field.
For five years, they had searched for two acres and kept losing out to buyers from bigger cities.
After a podcast guest mentioned looking after (stewarding instead of just growing) 20 acres, Jennifer took the size limit off her Zillow search, and the next day a 20-acre farm showed up on the Hood River Fruit Loop.
It was covered in knapweed and trash, and her daughter even said that no one likes the place except her.
Her husband said no until they watched the documentary Kiss the Ground, where he realized her vision, so they made an offer.
Every January, Jennifer makes a vision board. Hers had a barn, open land, and a long table filled with flowers.
Her coach taught her she doesn’t need every step mapped out. Just the next right step.
She also changed how she talked to herself, so “I hope we find a farm” became “I wonder when we’ll find our farm.”
Jennifer believes our world has gotten so busy and so loud that flowers give us a way to ground ourselves.
And in a world full of AI… “you can’t fake a dahlia.”
Flowers show us what beauty is. We look in the mirror and find our flaws first, but we never do that with a flower.
First, know your growing zone. Check the USDA Plant Hardiness Zone Map, your seed packets, and what local nurseries and flower farms grow well.
Then decide who you’re growing for. If it’s just you, grow what brings you joy. If you’re gifting or selling bouquets, you can use Jennifer’s bouquet recipe:
Note: If you’re selling, use 3 to 5 dahlias with filler instead of 10. The bouquet looks less busy, and you can charge the same price.
Today the farm runs a CSA, sells wholesale, and is adding more perennials to go easier on Jennifer’s body. She also runs a community for dahlia growers, hosts online dahlia summits and The Backyard Bouquet Podcast, and is breeding her own dahlia varieties.
She’s also filming a documentary about the ripple effect of local flowers!
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