What do a theater kid, a Venus flytrap, and a million TikTok followers have in common? Abundance… and my new plant friend Brian from Redleaf Ranch! Brian is the viral TikTok gardener you've probably come across if you spend any time in plant social media. He's the guy who makes you say “abundance!” out loud, and he’s here to talk about his approach to abundance and gratitude, plus how he used gardening as a tool for personal growth and community building.
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Abundance is a mindset. It’s not about having a million tomatoes. It’s a lifestyle! This philosophy appeared to Brian when he was in the process of shifting away from a mentality of “lack,” especially coming from a challenging background of freelance creative work in NYC. He’d been studying Abraham Hicks when he started gardening during the pandemic.
You can look at a garden full of what might seem like dead plants and still find an abundance of lessons to learn. An abundance of compost material, an abundance of opportunities to try again. It comes down to how you choose to look at what’s right in front of you.
Gardens literally reflect back at us the ways we need to be taking care of ourselves, the environment, communities, or our planet.
For Brian, one of the biggest lessons has been learning to relinquish control. Because at some point, your garden is going to get wild, and there's only so much you can manage and maintain. His wellness practice is also deeply integrated with his gardening. Even though he has a big garden that could easily be set up with irrigation, he chooses to hand water everything.
The biggest culture shock of moving to the countryside wasn’t the lack of city conveniences or being surrounded by fewer people. It was learning what to do with all that time, all that quietness, solitude, and trying not to feel guilty about not constantly doing something.
In fact, he’s learned to set boundaries now, where, from November 15th, he’s clocking out and “hibernating.” He doesn't talk to anyone for three months. So this seasonal rhythm is what allows him to show up fully during the growing season for his garden, content creation, and community events.
Brian’s now thinking about the future of Redleaf Ranch. His vision is focused on creating physical spaces where people can disconnect from the chaos of the world and then reconnect with themselves and nature.
He and his partner host these incredible open houses twice a year, where people come from all over to tour the gardens and greenhouses. His mom busts out the grill and starts cooking for everyone. It's become this hub of love and abundance, and they're using it to plant seeds so other people can cultivate that abundance wherever they are.
1. Get comfortable with failure – You are going to inevitably kill some plants. Plants are going to die. But if they die, you can just throw them in the compost, and they become part of the life you feed back into your garden.
2. Start where you are, but actually start – Too many people get paralyzed by analysis paralysis, where they research and study so much before even trying that they never actually begin. The garden will teach you what you need to know as you go.
3. Find your own abundance practice – Maybe it's saying “abundance” when you harvest those two bean pods. Maybe it's simply appreciating whatever growth is happening, however small.
When I think about our conversation, especially in light of where we are in the growing season, I'm reminded that abundance shows up in so many forms. Maybe your tomatoes got hit with hornworms this year. Maybe your garden fell short of what you pictured. That doesn’t mean it was wasted. There’s abundance in the failures, in the compost, in the act of showing up to care for it, and in the way it connects you to something larger.
As we move from summer into fall, I encourage you to look for abundance where you are. Brian’s book Gardening for Abundance is a wonderful guide, but your own garden is the best teacher. Be thankful for what grew, what didn’t, and everything you discovered along the way.
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